As things open up and our lives start to shift once more, transition continues in each of our lives.

There seem to be two dominant spaces that most of us are fluctuating between or finding ourselves immersed in. It is the pendulum effect.

One, the feeling of excitement and inspiration. A new lease on life. A new beginning. A renewed sense of self and appreciation.

The other, a feeling of being lost and down. Not knowing what is next or where to even begin. A sense of being stuck in the quicksand and unclear on the future. Humdrum space.

We can swing between these two spaces. The time spent in each may fluctuate from minute to minute, day to day, or even month to month.

This can cause self-doubt and fear... even judgment of not being decisive or grounded in our perspective and what we are experiencing.

It affects our self-trust and can make it more challenging to say yes to the things we feel inspired by because what if the pendulum swings and we find ourselves on the other side again in self-doubt and quicksand.

Or we don't trust ourselves because we are judging that we feel uninspired and uncertain and do not trust ourselves to dream big about what we truly want because what if we don't create it. The pain can seem too big. So "why bother".

But this is part of the process. The in-between. When we judge it, it becomes sticky and we get stuck in it.

When we realize it is not who we are but part of the process (and trust ourselves deeply within the process) and simply just notice where we are, that creates neutrality which allows for curiosity and healing. It turns pain into information.

The stickiness becomes less sticky.

And when we have a clear picture of what we authentically want it serves as a map forward.

And the stickiness becomes even less sticky.

We begin to build stepping stones to our most authentic best life.

(Note: This is may not even a conscious experience. We might find ourselves at the effect of the swinging pendulum or the lack of self-trust without even knowing what is actually happening. Bringing awareness to these spaces creates the shifts and changes we desire. Sometimes we just need guidance to know where to look.)

The beauty of authentic intuitive life design and becoming the artist of your life is that no matter which side of the pendulum you are on, it will guide you and give you the tools and awareness to create what you authentically desire with self-trust at the center of it all.

Having a clear picture and knowing what you truly want to experience while trusting yourself that you will create it brings you to the center of your life with empowerment, manifesting what is in your highest well-being.

You bring all parts of yourself to the conversation... what you need and desire in mind, body, and soul integrating all parts of you to realize you are WHOLE.

So if you are in the "inspired and can't wait for what is next" space then I invite you to dream big and then dream even bigger and start to play with the concept of designing your life.

And if you are in space of feeling lost or down I invite you to start to imagine what you want to experience and feel in your life.

Mini exercise to support you:

  • What is one thing you can STOP doing or participating in today that is not serving you in living your best life?

  • And what is one thing you can START doing or participating in today to support you in living your best authentic life?

Because you are whole. It is about clearing the energy and noise that disrupts that experience of wholeness so you can create and live your best authentic life with your highest self leading.

If this resonates with you and you would like to learn more about intuitive life design, I invite you to explore Whole Woman to manifest your authentic best life, click HERE.

With tremendous passion for what is possible...

Aimee Leigh